The Illusion Of Greatness – How To Project Security On To Others By Projecting It On Yourself

If you’re reading this, perhaps you are like me when I was in high school, shy, nervous about what others might say about me, avoiding confrontation whenever possible, no social life, pretty much being invisible to others. Well if that is the case keep reading on, I promise you’re going to learn something new and perhaps help you in some way. It wasn’t until later on while I was in college that I realized that I was a natural born leader all along, that I always had what it takes to talk to any girl I wanted and that I have more confidence than anyone I know. Today we are going to focus on one key point in leadership building, the illusion, if you truly believe you are something at your very core then you are just that. So let’s get right down to it, illusions are all around us, all the time, when you read the newspaper or a magazine, when you look at the night sky and see the stars, when you feel pain, all these are illusions. When you read a magazine and you see a picture that you like, you just think you are seeing an image but what you’re really seeing is a collection of colored dots that when put together create the illusion of an image. When you look at the night sky and see the stars you might think that you’re seeing them as they are right now but you’re really watching an illusion of what they were many years ago in the past. When you feel pain your body is telling you that something is not right, but we can learn to tolerate it. So what all that has to do with building your confidence? Well, confidence is just that, an illusion, the bigger the illusion the greater the confidence and the security in yourself, and the more you trust in yourself the more others will do the same. If you tell yourself a lie many times over it becomes real, as real as you want it to be, once you create an illusion of what you want eventually stops’ being an illusion and it becomes real. Basically it all comes down to a mental game; the strongest in this case is not the physically gifted but the one with the most powerful mind. What I want you to do is to...

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The “C” Word: Commitment Is Key To Living Your Dream

“When is the last time you threw your WHOLE SELF at your dreams?” I don’t follow traditional religious figures but I recently stumbled on a You Tube clip from a sermon on COMMITMENT by Bishop T.D. Jakes and he posed that question. (Here’s the link if you want to check it out T.D. Jakes had a lot of inspiring and thought-provoking insights to share about the “C” word. How committed are you to living your life full out? How committed are you to your business? Commitment to YOU is really crucial to your happiness and success. If you were to survey the most successful entrepreneurs and personalities, you would surely find that they were 100 percent committed to their goals. When you are committed, you can get whatever you need to succeed whether that’s education, training, financing or other types of support. It might take longer than you want it to take to reach your goal. You will likely have to make sacrifices. But if you’re committed, the likelihood that you will succeed skyrockets. Now, there is a price for Greatness. Greatness is not achieved easily. The cost of greatness is the sacrifice that will be required for you to achieve your dreams. You will have to give up something to get what you really want. Maybe you have to give up taking the easy road because being committed requires work. It requires that you do whatever it takes to achieve success and that will likely lead you outside your comfort zone. Finally, to get what you want, you have to be invested in it. You have to put in the effort. You can’t get other people to take your dreams seriously if you aren’t taking them seriously yourself. If you’re invested, it’s a lot easier to get other people on board. And, you have to be willing to put in what you want to get out of something. You can’t get something that you’re not willing to put in yourself. Reciprocity (a mutual exchange; a reciprocal relationship or act) is necessary. T.D. Jakes says if you expect more than you invest, you will live in a state of perpetual disappointment. What are you giving for what you’re getting or want? You also have to take your commitments seriously. You must fully understand and acknowledge what comes with your commitment. Ask yourself what committing to something will require of me,...

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The A,B,C’s Of Success And Why Your Education Get’s You Nowhere.

There are many people with the highest degrees from the best schools that are still working dead end jobs. Being well educated or emersing yourself in information does not lead to success. Don’t get me wrong, education, information and learning about a subject are VERY important. However, they are not the most important aspects of your success. So what is it? What is the one thing that will determine your path to success? It’s summed up in one word…..ACTION! I like to keep things REALLY SIMPLE, because I’ve found that if something is complicated, it’s not being done correctly. Life, success, and creating a reality that exceeds your dreams are all simple, if you follow these simple steps. We’re going to use the A,B,C method from now on to break down everything you want to achieve into small, manageable steps. Here is the A,B,C method in simple terms. A = Action B = Belief C = Consistency If you combine these 3 elements, you’re guaranteed to find success in what you want to achieve. So now I’d like to break down these 3 elements a bit to explain exactly what I mean by each one. These points are the foundation of this guide and must be the basis of each and every thing that you want to acheive from this moment on. Action – Taking action is the point in time where you stop trying. It’s the very moment when you realize that “Trying” doesn’t exist. You simply can’t “Try” to do anything. You either are…..or you’re not. To make this point I’d like you right now, to take a pen and place it in front of you and try to pick it up…..Go ahead and try. Now, did you pick it up? Yes? Then you didn’t try, you did it. Place it down again, and try again. You’ll quickly see that you either are…or you’re not, picking up the pen. The same goes with “Trying” to do anything. People say it all the time….”I’m trying to lose weight” – “I’m trying to quit smoking” – “I’m trying this….I’m trying to do that….” It’s a habit that has been formed over time. The reality is, if you say that you’re “Trying” to do something, you don’t have the second critical element of success that we’re going to talk about next. Belief – Belief in yourself, belief that you WILL accomplish...

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The A,B,C’s Of Success And Why Your Education Get’s You Nowhere.

There are many people with the highest degrees from the best schools that are still working dead end jobs. Being well educated or emersing yourself in information does not lead to success. Don’t get me wrong, education, information and learning about a subject are VERY important. However, they are not the most important aspects of your success. So what is it? What is the one thing that will determine your path to success? It’s summed up in one word…..ACTION! I like to keep things REALLY SIMPLE, because I’ve found that if something is complicated, it’s not being done correctly. Life, success, and creating a reality that exceeds your dreams are all simple, if you follow these simple steps. We’re going to use the A,B,C method from now on to break down everything you want to achieve into small, manageable steps. Here is the A,B,C method in simple terms. A = Action B = Belief C = Consistency If you combine these 3 elements, you’re guaranteed to find success in what you want to achieve. So now I’d like to break down these 3 elements a bit to explain exactly what I mean by each one. These points are the foundation of this guide and must be the basis of each and every thing that you want to acheive from this moment on. Action – Taking action is the point in time where you stop trying. It’s the very moment when you realize that “Trying” doesn’t exist. You simply can’t “Try” to do anything. You either are…..or you’re not. To make this point I’d like you right now, to take a pen and place it in front of you and try to pick it up…..Go ahead and try. Now, did you pick it up? Yes? Then you didn’t try, you did it. Place it down again, and try again. You’ll quickly see that you either are…or you’re not, picking up the pen. The same goes with “Trying” to do anything. People say it all the time….”I’m trying to lose weight” – “I’m trying to quit smoking” – “I’m trying this….I’m trying to do that….” It’s a habit that has been formed over time. The reality is, if you say that you’re “Trying” to do something, you don’t have the second critical element of success that we’re going to talk about next. Belief – Belief in yourself, belief that you WILL accomplish...

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Quran Is the Guidance for Those Who Fear Allah and Believe

(In the Name of Allah (SWT), Most Gracious, Most Merciful, all praise and thanks are due to Allah, Lord of the Realms and peace and blessings be upon His Messenger (SAWS) and upon all his family and companions) Quran is the last book of guidance which was revealed on Our Beloved Prophet Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam). The Quran deals with the ultimate goal of mankind. Allah Ta’ala has clearly explained the goal and aim of our lives as Allah Ta’ala says in Quran: “I have only created Jinns and men, that they may serve Me”. If someone wants to understand the core and essence of the Holy Quran he or she must have some characteristics and beliefs. Here are they: • first: who believe in the Unseen • second: who steadfast in prayer • third: who spend money in the way of Allah • fourth: who believe the Holy Quran and other books of Allah • fifth : who have the assurance of the Hereafter The second chapter of Quran talks about these characteristics as Allah says: “This is the Book; in it is guidance sure, without doubt, to those who fear Allah. Who believe in the Unseen, are steadfast in prayer, and spend out of what We have provided for them; And who believe in the Revelation sent to thee, and sent before thy time, and (in their hearts) have the assurance of the Hereafter”. the companions (Sahaba (Radhiy allaho anho) of Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) used to say first we learned Imaan (belief) from Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) and then we learned Quran. one can’t really understand the core of Quran without Imaan however it is such amazing Book that it opens up gates of guidance for every single human being no matter he/she is a Muslim or not. Quran says that the people who have the above characteristics would not only get guidance but also they are the ones who will prosper. The fifth verse of Surah Al-Baqarah / The Cow states: “They are on (true) guidance, from their Lord, and it is these who will prosper.” on the other hand there are some unfortunate people who would not get guidance at all. Allah says to Rasulullah (Sallallaho alaihe wasallam) that whether you warn them or not they will not become Muslims as Quran says : “As to those who reject Faith, it is the same to...

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